Would you find yourself between Sarah and me? Would you find yourself between Sarah and me? This is not yet the case with “between you and me”. Most current instructions for use (as well as many angry people on Twitter) believe that this use reduces the appearance of the user. Our own user guide takes a slightly more acceptable position: place the screen between it and us. Put the screen between her and us. Many lawyers cling to the grammatical rules of high junior, which would dictate agreements between two parties and between three or more. Do you think rather metaphorically: is a multi-party agreement rather “sand between the toes” or “disagreement between friends”? Between you and me, the phrase “between you and me” rubs in my ears like nails on a board. I hear the wrong version 3 times as many times as I hear it is well said, so let`s straighten that out once and for all. Perhaps the most famous use of “between you and me” is found in William Shakespeare`s Venice merchant, in which Antonio Bassanio states in a letter that “all debts between you and me are settled.” Shakespeare was just one of many writers of the past who, in this prepositional sentence, used the subjective case rather than the objective case. In an 1878 issue of notes and queries, it was stated, “Between you and me is as thick and abundant as the autumn leaves that clog streams at Vallambrosa,” and offered the following examples (among many others). Then the music – so slowly the cadets die, O Dolly, between you and me, it is also for my peace that there is no one who is close.
— Thomas Moore, The Fudge Family in Paris, 1818, third sentence, is right because I am the OBJECTIVE FORM of the PRONOMEN that must be used afterwards. (Not necessarily immediately after, but later along the sentence) Pull up the chair between Helen and me. Pull up the chair between Helen and me. 1. After a while, my friend and I went home. 2. Tom was sitting between my friend and me. 3. Tom was sitting between my friend and me. Go sit between him and her. Go sit between him and her. Although it is quite easy to match the English verb to the subject, complex subjects can sometimes cause problems with the subject-verb agreement..